How Not to Kill Yourself

A Survival Guide for Imaginative Pessimists.

Description

An alternative, half-cynical and somewhat black-humoured ‘self-help’ guide to dealing with suicidal thoughts and depression among the deeply imaginative, society’s most promising and yet most undervalued asset.

This short guide caters to ‘imaginative pessimists’ – creative cynics, ‘tortured artists’ – those with rich imaginations and drive to create, who absorb themselves in fiction and escapism, yet who deeply struggle with finding enjoyment and meaning in the mundanity of reality. It is advice for the fantasists who would rather live in their head than in the real world, and so often suffer from depression and disillusion, to point of being led at times to suicidal thoughts.

It is about finding these people a reason to live.

 

Readers will find the short format and personal approach immediately accessible and appealing. How Not to Kill Yourself was written with no age range in mind, simply for the depressed.

Laura DeGroft, Voices of Youth Advocates

The best piece of literature I have ever read about depression...and I've read A LOT. Required reading for those with depression and those who know people with depression (which most people, I believe, fall into one or both categories).

Nicole, Instagram

There were so many things I appreciated about this book: the honesty, the forthright discussion of major depression and suicide, and the perspective-giving humour. All these aspects were refreshing; all made me feel that I had at last picked up a book that accurately described the experience of living with depression.

Ruth, Goodreads review

[Set Sytes] knows that sugar-coating depression, and force-feeding the reader sappy positive sh*t, as what is done in many other self-help books, is unhelpful. He doesn't want us to get rid of our cynicism. And that's what, for me, makes this "survival guide" so refreshing.

Angelyka, Goodreads review

This is probably the greatest "self-help" book I have ever read. Why? Because it was easy to read, short, hilarious, not at all condescending, and full of a giant range of helpful strategies to combat even the worst thoughts depression, BPD, and anxious creativity can throw at me... [Set's] voice is such a joy and the presentation is so disarming...

Joanna, Goodreads review

The idea of staying alive not because I like me or because I like the world... but simply out of sheer spite?



At the moment this is really working for me, when nothing else was.

Hursfard, Amazon review

 

Sytes uses humor and blunt speech to help shake the reader out of their funk. He doesn’t try to gloss over people’s pain with fluffy words about seeing the brighter side. He is gritty, real, and tells it like it is.

Paige Lovitt, ReaderViews

Why is this book so great? Because instead of singing the praises of positive thinking and looking on the bright side, it acknowledges that there is a lot of ugly, depressing crap in the world. That is, it tells the truth.

Elizabeth Harper, Literate Ape

Sytes ensures that readers feel seen, a critical departure from books that merely offer suggestions (or, far worse, platitudes).

Heather Seggel, The Progressive Populist

...such an interesting book that looks into life dealing with depression and how to cope or deal with it. This is something not many, if any, authors are willing to do so without offending the reader.

Nudge-Book

Some of the most spot on descriptions of living with depression/anxiety I've ever seen

Adam, Goodreads review

Wonderfully done, as only a true pessimist could ever possibly do.

"Cat Lady", Amazon review

Finally, a self-help book that doesn't make me want to vomit.

Morgan, Amazon review